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| Every problematic situation is characterized by forces in conflict. So improving a situation always involves redirecting forces and resolving conflict. |
| Reducing Stress by Resolving Conflict While there are many ways one can get some temporary relief from stress, one way to adjust ones life to really reduce stress is to resolve outer and inner conflicts. |
| Defining Resolution What is meant by resolution here is resolving differences and getting people, ideas or forces lined up so that everything is in harmony. For example, if two people do not get along, the event of one of them moving away is not a resolution. Learning to get along and working things out would be the type of resolution being discussed here. |
| Improving Wellness By Resolving Inner Conflict Inner conflict is a situation within a person such that the person has inner forces, such as ideas or desires, that conflict. Essentially this means that the conflicted person is going through life having to constantly push against the person's own self. Inner conflicts can be conscious or unconscious. In other words, one may it. Guess what. Fighting one's self makes things an effort and creates stress. Things that seem as if they should be easy to accomplish can be very difficult to accomplish. This makes sense. One is fighting one's self every step of the way. So, here is how you can improve your situation. If there is something in your life that is difficult, or you are experiencing a problem, consider that you are conflicted somehow in a way that relates to the difficulty you are experiencing. You may or may not be conscious of the conflicting ideas or desires. Either way, the thing to do is resolve them. To the degree that inner conflict becomes resolved, problems will be resolved and life will become less stressful and take less effort. If you are not aware of being conflicted in a way that relates to the difficulty you are experiencing, the conflict is unconscious, In that case, you need to figure out what is going on, what you unconsciously desire or believe that is in conflict with what you consciously desire or believe. Then, once you have discovered the nature of the conflict, you can resolve it. |
| Improving Wellness By Resolving External Conflict Living in conflict with others is stressful and having to deal with conflict in one way or another when living or working with people with whom one is in conflict takes effort. Resolving conflict with others or working things out relieves the strain and makes living or working together easier. |